finding self

M: I’m starting to really enjoy being alone. It's sometimes hard to find something, but I’m starting to get better and better. Off course it's nice to hang around with people but I thought I was going to feel lonely.

R: Travel alone is good to help us find ourselves. Our real selves. Ok, now I'm about to overanalyze. Stop me. Please. Haha 

M: No that's very true that’s not over-analyzing. 

R: But I'm about to analyze more if nobody stop me. 

M: I ain't stopping ya. 

R: So, did you find yourself already? 

M: I don't know if I will find myself. That's like the end of travelling or something. Or like your life is complete or almost done. Did u? 

R: That's a bit tricky, finding self I mean. How do you know whether you already find your real self or not? If one keeps on changing, than you will never find the real self. Because you live with it. With the transformation of yourself. 

M: True and I think you constantly change. Especially when you are travelling alone, or read, or study, or communicate with others. 

R: That's it. So you'll never find yourself. Or at least not your final self. 

M: I hope not. I think the journey is more fun than finding yourself. 

R: For final self only well assembled when you're not changing anymore, but if we live, we will keep on changing. 

M: When u die maybe. 

R: You read my mind. 

M: And finding yourself is so vague. I think it's more like setting principles or what are your own morals. And I don't have that at all. 

R: Finding self is overrated. 

M: True that. I would drink to that! But it's too expensive. 

R: Sometimes something is made not to be discussed, but to enjoyed.

it's ok to be alone


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